Day 1
Oh-so-excited.
"Tengok Ibu, oh, cantiknya baju..."
New shirt, new pants, new socks (used pair of shoes though- hands-me-down from Abang Ujai)
"Ibu, Akif nak pergi sekolah. Akif nak berjaya"
Ibu was pleasantly surprised by the declaration (and made a quick do'a that he will grow up as a success in both dunya wal akhirah)
Class was a bit chaotic - but we found a place for him.
Immediately saw a box of Lego - and started playing
Which prompted others in the class to also join him playing.
I left when the situation looked to be a little more in control and the kindy's grille was closed.
Security is a major concern when Akif is known to have gone wandering on his own.
When I picked him after work - he was crying.
Apparently he had gone out of the classroom twice!
Oh dear.
Once, when the students who are only attending the morning session went home.
In the midst of them, Akif went out on his own and went to a convenience shop.
Found by a kind makcik who even paid for a toy robot for Akif and returned him to the kindy (known from the name tag he put on)
He slipped out of the kindy again when a fellow student was about to leave in the evening.
A teacher immediately ran after him - and he almost made it to the main road had not a passer-by stopped him.
He started crying in protest when he was taken back to the kindy/transit.
And that was the condition I found him in - in tears of protest...
Day 2
Moody right from the very beginning.
Wanted to put on his "baju Tom & Jerry" (pyjamas) after shower.
I pointed out that 'baju cantik' is nicer to put on, as "baju Tom & Jerry dah kotor"
After a struggle, managed to make him wore the white t-shirt and navy blue track bottoms on.
When we stopped at the nursery to drop his younger brothers, he went inside the nursery.
The care takers had to convince him that he had to go to 'sekolah lain' as 'Akif dah tak sekolah sini dah'.
He didn't want to bulge so had to forcefully dragged him into the car.
When we arrived at his kindy, he refused to bulge.
Had to pick him up and carried him like a baby all the way to the front door.
And then he started wailing "Ibu, jomlah kita balik rumah".
Tried to negotiate with him.
Didn't work.
Tried to distract him by asking him to join his peers wiggling and swaying to song as taught by the teacher.
Didn't work.
In fact he only cried louder.
"Akif tak nak sekolah... Jomlah kita balik rumah, Ibu..."
Another girl who had been observing him looked alarmingly like she was going to start crying too.
So I knew I had to make a quick exit.
A teacher hold him and signed it was okay for me to leave.
And I left.
And I could hear his loud wail even from behind closed door.
It was not easy to walk away.
I waited for a few minutes until the cry seemed to subside - outside the kindy.
It didn't last very long.
But still, it was not easy to walk away...
6 comments:
salam kak azra. apa kabar? lama bertegur kt blog ni. nway kita ada baca entries kak azra berkaitan checkup akif on his speech development. nk tanya kak azra mcm mana ye buat appointment dgn pakar kt um tu? boleh just call and get the date ke, mesti pergi sana ke atau kena ada refer letter ke? i have speech concern dgn ihsan jugak. now dh 2 thn stgh. rasanya nk kena check juga. tq kak.
Salam Ina,
Dulu akak bawak Akif jumpa GP, voiced out my concern. GP observed & referred to Paediatrician. Paed observed and referred to child development specialist. Specialist observed and referred him to undergo occupational & speech therapy.
Tapi ada juga kes yang paed je referkan utk undergo therapy. Depends aar. Kalau Ina tak nak go to govt hospital rehabilitation centers, boleh je cari private therapists. Skrg ni dah byk katanya - maybe can go there for both consultation & therapy. Tak payah tunggu apmt lama2 - cuma kena standby wallet tebal la sikit, tu je...
Oo cmtu ye. Tq kak. Kebetulan semalam ada checkup Ihsan 2 tahun 6 bulan dekat klinik kesihatan. So bgtau doctor then dia pun terus buat surat. Hubby pilih Hospital Serdang sbb dekat. Tapi sbnrnya sebelum tu kita ada surf juga and ramai orang pergi PPUM atau HUKM. Tak terjumpa pun orang sebut pasal Hospital Serdang. Akak pernah dgr/baca org bawak anak treat kt Hospital Serdang? Ada juga baca dekat website dia tapi xbanyak info. Tak macam website PPUM n HUKM mmg dia ada list down semua. Kita bawa ke government hospital je kak. Tp tula kat mana bagus ye? Kot salah bawak nanti nk kena buat appointment lagi dah ambik masa.
Pengalaman akak agak terhad untuk bandingkan Hospital Putrajaya je - therapists & facilities dkt PPUM are better than in HPJ. And PPUKM apparently has the best Child & Adolescent Psychiatry Clinic - so chances are, therapists & facilities there too are better than in HPJ. Mungkin sebab PPUM & PPUKM adalah teaching hospital, compared to HPJ. Hospital Serdang akak tak tau. Cumanya - pengalaman akak bersalin di Hospital Serdang - it was okay (compared to pengalaman bersalin di HPJ yang mengerikan) So, akak rasa tak salah kalau try dulu di Serdang as a start... Tapi kalau dapat info yang concrete tentang Hospital yang lebih bagus - bolehlah pegi sana terus... Good luck!
tq kak. tula kita dgr mcm tu juga ukm n ppum mmg ok. silap la smlm xminta doctor refer kan ke sana terus. xpela try jela dlu kan. hopefully appointment date for diagnosis tu xlambat sgt. then later boleh tukar hospital kalau perlu. huhu debar2 kak. risau semua ada. selama ni dh ajar mcm2 juga. doa xpernah putus. hopefully it's nothing serious. hmm papepun redha.
so u have come back also ? :) just notice hehe how are u ?
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